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Reflections on a Retreat
I just returned from being with about 100 men on a retreat in South Carolina. These were men of faith, ranging in age from late 20’s to...
Sam
Feb 5, 20192 min read


Is it true you can't fix 'stupid'?
“James Olds, a professor of neuroscience who directs the Krasnow Institute for Advanced Study at George Mason University, says that even...
Sam
Jan 14, 20193 min read


Stupid is as Stupid Does?
Speaking of plastic . . . the question “Is Google Making Us Stupid?” is one worth asking. Of course, it takes some smarts to ask and...
Sam
Jan 6, 20192 min read


Are we all "plastic men"?
For the first 60 years of my life, the word “plastic” was almost exclusively a noun. Plastic was a “thing” used to make thousands of...
Sam
Jan 3, 20191 min read


Jason, Orpheus, the Troggs, and LBJ
Funny how the mind works. I spent the last two weeks moving from our home for the last 20+ years in Florida back to our native Northern...
Sam
Dec 19, 20183 min read


You've Got to Be Kidding
Perhaps you saw the news on the BBC that the Illinois State House has erected a monument to Satan for the holidays. (See headline...
Sam
Dec 5, 20183 min read


Don't Let The Grinch Steal Your Christmas
Merry Christmas Ever wonder why we say “Merry” Christmas and “Happy” New Year? Me, too. Why not “Happy” Christmas and “Merry” New Year?...
Sam
Dec 4, 20181 min read


When Everything Isn't Enough
Other than fame, wealth, power, prestige, and popularity, what do the following people have in common? Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, Sheryl...
Sam
Nov 30, 20182 min read


Onanism and Procrasturbation
Kate Julian is Senior Editor at the Atlantic Monthly. In New York Times’ columnist Ross Douthat’s words, her cover story in the December...
Sam
Nov 27, 20182 min read


Are Video Games Like Cocaine?
On November 22, 2018, Ben Bryant of the BBC asked the question, “What happens when you make teenagers abstain from alcohol, drugs and...
Sam
Nov 24, 20182 min read


Brain Blog Four
In our previous three blogs we looked at the three parts of the human brain: 1. The Amygdala, or reptilian part of the brain, the part of...
Sam
Nov 22, 20183 min read


Brain Blog Part Three
This is the third blog in a series on the Tripartite Brain. In the previous blogs, we looked at the more primitive parts of the brain,...
Sam
Nov 17, 20186 min read


Brain Blog Part Two
This is the second blog in a series on the Tripartite Brain. In the previous blog, we looked at the most primitive part of the brain, the...
Sam
Nov 15, 20182 min read


Hijacking the Triune Brain
In the next several blogs, I hope to offer a hopefully helpful oversimplification of a very complex and only recently understood aspect...
Sam
Nov 9, 20184 min read


DE-FENSE!
Defending Against Sudden Urges to Act Out In our practice working with Sex and Love Addicts, clients often ask us how to defend against...
Sam
Nov 7, 20183 min read


The Five P's of Infinite Resignation
In our previous blog post, we were introduced to what philosopher Soren Kierkegaard dubbed the “Knight of Infinite Resignation.”...
Sam
Nov 3, 20183 min read


The Knight of Infinite Resignation
“Infinite Resignation” and the Five P’s When a chess player knows he is beaten, he lays down his king, and admits defeat, it is said “He...
Sam
Oct 29, 20182 min read


Learning to "Surf the Urge"
I’m not much of a surfer. Tried it once. Fell over a lot. Looked pretty foolish. Gave up. I’m more familiar with what we in Addiction...
Sam
Oct 25, 20182 min read


Odysseus as a Role Model for Addicts
Those of us in the addiction community can look back to our ninth grade English class for wisdom and inspiration. It was then that many...
Sam
Oct 21, 20182 min read


The Sum of Somes
“The Sum of Somes” There is an old saying: “The three things a person needs to be content are Someone to Love, Something to Do, and...
Sam
Oct 18, 20182 min read
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