Rev'd Dr. Sam Pascoe

"That's not who I am." Perhaps you’ve heard or read those words in recent days or weeks. People caught by the seemingly all-seeing eyes...

Famously, a Hall of Fame Defensive Lineman once said that his game plan was simple, “Meet at the Quarterback.” Thus did he backhandedly...

As I mentioned before, I was primarily a Center in high school. That meant I spent a lot of time getting to know Defensive Linemen “up...

“I want someone who's got my back." Almost by definition, that is what Linebackers do. As we will discuss next time, the Defensive Line...

We are continuing our series on how married life is like football. We are looking at each position to see what we can learn about how our...

We continue our series on how marriage is like football with another “glamour” position. The job of a Wide Receiver is to run a...

We are in our series on how marriage, or any significant relationship, is like . We are looking at every position in turn and trying to...

In this series we are exploring ways in which marriage is like football. This time we will look at the Offensive Line. Last time I spoke...

Being married is a lot like football . . . and I don’t mean that it’s a contact sport—although it should be—in a good way. What I mean is...

“Well, said Pooh, what I like best, and then he had to stop and think. Because although eating honey was a very good thing to do, there...

In the wonderful musical "Fiddler on the Roof," the hero, Tevye, engages in irrealis speech, a use of the subjunctive mood. Confused? Me...

Even if you don't know Latin, you probably know what ad hominem means. (It means "against the person".) You've certainly experienced it,...

I used to work for a commercial painting company. We did houses but we also did large commercial projects like big-box stores, grocery...

I stole this excellent material from the equally website "No Fap." Highly recommended. Used without permission but with much gratitude....

The familiar term “white lies” dates from the 18th century and implies a benign or even charitable falsehood, spoken to smooth social...

We call getting our bearings straight getting “oriented.” This is because ancient maps made in the western world had the Holy Land...

I was in a training the other day and one of the leaders brought up the concept of “Staying Found.” That simple, two-word phrase struck...

Good Boundaries In our last blog, we looked briefly a Bad Boundaries. It’s time to look at Good Boundaries. Boundaries are necessary and...

Bad Boundaries There is a proverbial saying that “Good fences make good neighbors,” and it’s true. Part of knowing ourselves is know...

My favorite website/podcast for people who struggle with Sex Addiction or Compulsive Sexual Behavior is "The Betrayed, the Addicted, and...